Here are the lessons of love to steal from our favorite TV shows
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Being in love is often pure happiness. It's simple when you're in this state, you get high and live your best life. However, it is not always obvious and it happens that arguments and misunderstandings get involved. Even if we love our other half very much, it happens that we no longer know what to do to improve the situation or simply to understand it. And it's even harder when you've loved someone secretly for a long time. If these series characters have survived the worst trials, Trendy invites you to come back to the lessons of love that the series taught us. Do not hesitate to apply some of them in real life!
Let the other make their own mistakes
It's easy to say, harder to do. However, it is better to encourage the other and give him all his support rather than constantly repeating that he is making a mistake and that you do not agree. In season 3 of Dawson, Joey falls in love with a student when she is still only in high school. Their romance begins on rather complicated bases since they evolve in two different worlds. For her part, Pacey is starting to seriously feel feelings for her..
But instead of lecturing her and scolding her, he encourages her and will even be the first to be there for her when the couple eventually go their separate ways. Subsequently, he will manage to conquer his heart. In short, a romance is made up of a good dose of friendship and supporting the other is one of the bases of a successful relationship.
The happiness of the other above all
When you love someone, you must not be selfish and let them be happy even if that means accepting to see them go. This is exactly what happens to Peyton at the start of The Brothers Scott Season 4. She comes to realize that she is still in love with Lucas but knowing that he loves Brooke, she will do anything to try to bring them together and allow them to get back together.
She will even go so far as to silence her own feelings so as not to compromise their love affair. A magnificent sacrifice! Some time later, Lucas will finally realize that he is in love with Peyton and they will even marry at the end of season 6 of the series. It just goes to show that being altruistic and disinterested can pay off!
Unveiling your feelings is proof of courage
Often, when we know that we are in love, we are afraid of revealing it to the loved one. Indeed, it is not always easy to say these three words to someone and even more so if you are not in a relationship with this person.. However, even if the fall can be painful, it can also lead your crush to reveal their feelings to you in turn. Who does not try anything has nothing as they say. Moreover, Lexie Gray ended up taking her courage in both hands to tell Mark Sloan that she loved him in a statement so beautiful that we still have chills just thinking about it. Small excerpt from Grey's Anatomy currently broadcast on ABC:
" I love you. I am so in love with you. And I got you under my skin. It's like you're a disease. I am infected with Mark Sloan. And I can do nothing but think of you, I can't sleep anymore. I can't breathe anymore. I can't eat anymore. And I love you. I love you every minute of every day and I love you. "
Accept the other fully with their faults and qualities
It is not always easy to get there but it is nevertheless the basis. No one is perfect, neither you nor the loved one. He must therefore be fully accepted, including his dark side, because it makes him what he is today. If you decide to get into a relationship with someone, you shouldn't try to change them even if the situation is complicated. This is what Elena managed to do with Damon in The Vampire Diaries. He makes mistakes! However, the young woman ends up coping with her impulsive, selfish and proud side.
Better yet, she managed to appease him, he who had suffered so much from his affair with Katherine. In short, sometimes you have to face the facts: we love people despite their faults even if you expect them to make efforts to improve.
Being honest is the key to a balanced relationship
Lying is immediately casting a shadow over a romantic relationship. It is better to speak the truth and build a couple on healthy and solid foundations. And you can believe us, trust is the key to a balanced relationship. Don't forget that lying and covering up are what almost cost Oliver his relationship with Felicity in Arrow . So, rather than trusting her, he preferred to hide from her that he had a son. Unfortunately, it was not the first time. Especially since he continued to act without ever consulting her, without really including her in his life.
The young woman therefore preferred to leave him rather than stay with a man unable to be honest with her. Of course, Oliver had learned to rely only on himself on Lian Yu, but we obviously understand Felicity's reasons. If all goes well on the love side, we advise you to watch the Outer Banks series, the Netflix series that everyone is talking about.
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